When you think of Janet Jackson, the last word that comes to mind is "insecure." But like so many women out there, this music icon has faced her own body-image battles. In the latest issue of In Style, Janet, now 52, candidly shared her journey of learning to love herself and embracing the things that make her unique.
Discovering Self-Love: Janet's Honest Struggles
Janet revealed the challenges she faced in finding something she truly loved about her body. "It was such a difficult process for me," she admitted. "For a long time, I just couldn’t find anything I liked about myself. I would stand in front of the mirror and end up in tears. I felt like I wasn’t attractive at all." But through perseverance and self-reflection, Janet began to see the beauty within her. "I started by falling in love with the small of my back. And from there, I found more things I cherished about myself," she explained with a warmth that resonates deeply.
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Embracing Age and Experience
Janet acknowledged that it took time for her to feel truly beautiful. "As I’ve grown older, I’ve learned that beauty isn’t just one thing. It’s an experience, a journey. It’s understanding that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and colors," she said thoughtfully. "It’s not about conforming to some ideal—it’s about embracing who you are, flaws and all."
Through her life experiences, Janet not only accepted her body but also found beauty in her smile. "I used to think my smile was too big, that I looked like the Joker. But now, I realize it’s not so bad after all," she confessed with a laugh. "It’s all about finding what makes you special and owning it."
Understanding True Beauty
With the help of her therapist, Janet delved into the concept of "finding that one thing you like about yourself." Once she saw herself as attractive, she realized that beauty is multifaceted. "It’s not just about how you look on the outside," she explained. "It’s about vulnerability, power, confidence, happiness, and seeing the goodness in your soul. It’s about spirituality, being selfless, and what you do for others before thinking of yourself." Janet’s journey to self-love serves as an inspiring reminder that true beauty radiates from within.
